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Solutions are conducting some research in association with Q:alliance and could really do with your input. Results from this survey will help improve the services young LGBT people get from a variety of agencies and help us all to get a better understanding of what life is like for young LGBT people in the city.

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Many organisations are interested in the LGBT community. Who is offering what? What is out there? How can you participate in what already exists?

The objective is to bring together all those who are interested in the LGBT community in the area and facilitate communication. If you are interested in the LGBT community or in finding out what there is; whether you are lesbian, gay, bi- or trans, or whether you are interested, concerned or related to someone who is, come and join us for the day.

The day will include presentations by over twenty organisations that are organising or offering services, events or activities to the LGBT community.

During the day, you will have the opportunity to circulate, listen to the presentations which you believe may be of interest to you, and meet people.

Of particular interest will be a debate with questions and answers between local parliamentary candidates from the three main national parties and a projection of Olivia Humphreys “Latecomers” about older people coming out.

For more information, please contact PeterJLeeson {at} hotmail(.)com

This meeting is provided free of charge to all participants, no financial assistance to the costs of the day can be provided to the groups making presentations. It is recommended that participants bring a packed lunch. Coffee and tea will be available on site; doughnuts will be on sale for £1.00 each. Contributions towards the cost of organising are welcome.

Public Transport:

Free Rainbow Bus to pickup participants from  The Point, CMK at 9:30am.

Public Transport: MK Metro bus 7A from City Centre to Dulverton Drive.

Over the next few weeks theres a wide range of events, including social opportunities, walking groups, HIV Quicktesting, pub nights, counselling, meals out, the LGBT General Assembly (which is going to be HUGE – click here for details), International Day Against Homophobia in Football and a fantastic event looking at the life of Alan Turing at Bletchley Park in honour of LGBT History Month – check the calendar for details. If you have, or know of, an event that should be listed here, please email us at website {at} qalliance.org(.)uk.

Please note that try to provide accurate listings, but always get in contact with the event organiser to double check. Not all social groups are listed on the calendar, for a full list of groups that we know of in the area click here. Unless otherwise noted, the events are not run by Q:alliance.

In addition to the events listed, Pink Punters, the local LGBT club, is open Thurs-Sun from 9pm. For more details on Pink Punters visit www.pinkpunters.com.

A date for your calendars. On Saturday January 30th, the LGBT General Assembly 2010 (North Buckinghamshire) will be held at the Ridgeway Community Centre in Milton Keynes (map link). The objective is to bring together all those who are interested in the LGBT community in the area.

Whether you organise events or activities, or are interested in attending them, this is the opportunity. The day will consist of:

• Brief presentations by the various organisations as to what they do and offer
• Discussion as to what people would like to see as events
• Discussion on what is the LGBT community itself
• Public viewing of Olivia Humphreys’ film “Late-Comers” about “older” people coming out.

Topics to be covered include support, healthcare, sports, social evenings and more.

Tell us what you do, tell us what you want.

To be kept informed or to mark your interest, please get in contact with Peter Leeson – PeterJLeeson {at} hotmail(.)com or 01908 501426.

Courage MK

A Christian lesbian couple are exploring the possibilities of holding fellowship meetings in Milton Keynes for LGBT Christians.  The group would be for  LGBT Christians who are seeking a safe place of friendship in which to reconcile their faith and sexuality and grow towards Christian maturity as well as their partners and friends, parents and other family members. There would also be resources for churches and for LGBT people without a faith who are seeking answers to life’s questions.

The group will hold two initial monthly meetings as social events to meet LGBT Christians who would be interested in attending MK Courage. These meetings are to be held on Wednesday 4th November and Wednesday 2nd December 2009 in Milton Keynes. In addition, they will be holding a Sunday worship meeting on 22nd November 2009.

For further information on the time and venue, you can email Jane at info {at} just-church.org(.)uk.

Courage MK is affiliated to the national organisation Courage, an evangelical Christian organisation, founded in 1988. Further details of the national organisation can be found at www.courage.org.uk.

The Planet

Meets on the second Sunday of the month at The Stables Bar, The Bull Hotel, 64 High Street, Stony Stratford, Milton Keynes, MK11 1AQ From 7 -10.30pm. £3 admission on the door. For further information please email gezzigirl {at} aol(.)com, alternatively call or text on 07889 179596. The evening is all about meeting people, relaxing and listening to good music from Heartbeat Disco. There will be a licensed bar with the option of coffee, cocktails and non-alcoholic cocktails.

Vibe@The Springfield

A friendly, welcoming and relaxed LGBT social gathering based in Milton Keynes and serving MK and the surrounding areas and meeting every Wednesday from 8pm at The Springfield pub. They have a Facebook page here, or you can email vibemk {at} sky(.)com or call Bex on 07596 702160 for more information.

Please note that these groups are not run by Q:alliance, but we fully support them! A complete list of groups we know about, including The Gay Outdoor Club, The Lesbian Social Groups and the Secklow 100 group, can be found in our Information Section.

If you run a group, or know of a group, that would like to be listed on our site, email us at website {at} qalliance.org(.)uk. If you want some advice on how to set up and run a group you can email info {at} qalliance.org(.)uk.

A Day In Hand announces the second ever international same-sex hand holding (Sshh!) Saturday on October 31st 2009. On this day, same-sex couples and friends all over the world are encouraged to hold hands in public to support the visibility of Lesbian, Gay, Bi, Trans (LGBT) people. This is a revolutionary way of encouraging and inspiring LGBT people to take responsibility for their equality and live their lives without fear or restraint.

David Watkins, A Day In Founder was recently recognised by Gordon Brown, UK Prime Minister as an award winning activist in his field, with the Sheila Mckechnie Foundation

Watkins says, “Sshh! Saturdays aim to ultimately create safer spaces for LGBT people. The last Saturday of every month should become a day of support for LGBT people who want to show their commitment in public. Many years ago in the UK, LGBT people knew that the last carriage of every train would be populated by members of the queer community. Today, A Day In Hand wants people to feel the same sense of support in public spaces on the last Saturday of every month.” Sshh! Saturdays are easily organised wherever you are. They are not prides or rallies. It only requires 2 people of the same sex to hold hands to make a Sshh! Saturday. The images sent to yourstories {at} adayinhand(.)com will be spread throughout the world via our website .

Visibility of same-sex love is particularly important so that LGBT people become part of the cultural fabric of people’s lives. Watkins adds “Same-sex hand holding (Sshh!) is a silent revolution for LGBT people, because nothing needs to be said: no bold speeches, no reactive arguments, no war of words. Each LGBT person has the power to change the hearts and minds of people in their local community quietly, subtly, by simply holding hands publicly and owning their space. However, hand holding is a simple powerful gesture that can happen anywhere, at any time.” In areas of the world where it is impossible for LGBT to hold hands publicly, we call on people to send messages of support to our website on Sshh! Saturdays, and send in their photos of them holding hands, in public or private to us.

For more information about this briliant project, check out their website www.adayinhand.com.

Malcolm X

A round-up of what we’ve been posting on our Facebook and Twitter accounts this week…

• Black History Month ‘09 Profile – Malcolm X

• Vigil planned for gay man murdered in Trafalgar Square http://bit.ly/2IjyXb

• New radio drama about Alan Turing available on Saturday the 24th from The Independent – http://bit.ly/NEe0a

• Great blog from Lubin Odana about the Mail and their rules of writing about gays

• More than 22,000 complain to PCC over Stephen Gately piece – The Guardian

• On 6th November 2009, Pink Punters will mark Guy Fawkes/Bonfire Night (and help raise money for Q:alliance) with a new and unique celebration of how much the equality laws have improved – Gay Folks Night – 40 years after the Stonewall Riots – More info here

• Vibe@Springfield is a new, friendly and welcoming LGBT social night starting! Every Wednesday at 8pm in Springfield

• Equality and Human Rights Commission have launched the Trans Research Review

• Would you fight for your right to be offended? – You Tube video

• 5 lesbian and gay documentaries guaranteed to turn you into a gay activist – http://bit.ly/FB9fF

• 1 in 5 LGB people face homophobia in Britain – http://bit.ly/2YYE96

• Congrats to the Daily Mail for running this: http://bit.ly/1lRktS – Janet Street Porter disagrees with Jan Moir

• Life is never boring, but some people choose to be bored… boredom is a choice.

• Brighton man held in police custody over murder of Brighton trans woman – http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/england/sussex/8312977.stm

• Mental health can affect physical wellbeing, says Mind – http://bit.ly/2NIbZE

• Jan Moir is “the tip of an iceberg”: A history of Daily Mail homophobia – http://bit.ly/3TXm68

• Great article by Charlie Brooker on Jan Moir’s vile homophobic article in the Mail – http://bit.ly/1UJjef

Pink Punters have come up with a great way to celebrate Guy Fawkes AND Gay Folks on Friday the 6th of November as well as raising some much needed money for Q:alliance! More info below and at the PP’s site.

Remember Remember the 5th of November, Gunpowder, Treason & Plot.

Discover what Guy Fawkes & Gay Folks have in common?
4 centuries ago, Catholics were treated as unequal citizens, they were persecuted, beaten, tortured and killed simply because of their religion.

4 decades ago. LGBT people were treated as unequal citizens, they too were persecuted, beaten, tortured and killed but in this case because of their sexuality.

Guy Fawkes was fighting for equal rights, tolerance and an end to catholic persecution. Unable to change the English laws, he and his co conspirators set about an ambitious plot to blow up parliament and kill King James 1st.

The Stonewall riots in New York 1969 were the result of an uprising in the LGBT communities fed up with constant harassment, abuse and persecution by New York police officers. The riots were the catalyst for a series of riots and afterwards protests, demonstrations that continued for many years. Thankfully these days we can now all enjoy the peaceful, fun filled Pride celebrations that are held up and down the UK every year.

On 6th November 2009, Pink Punters will mark Guy Fawkes/Bonfire Night with a new and unique celebration of how much the equality laws have improved – Gay Folks Night – 40 years after the Stonewall Riots.

Gay Folks Night will draw comparisons between Guy Fawkes and The Gunpowder Plot of 4 centuries ago with Gay Folks and The Stonewall Riots of 4 decades ago. We will remember the past, celebrate the present and look forward with hope for the future.

Write & Light – Bonfires, Lanterns and Fireworks – Angels & Demons
Burning your Demons – Get rid of your demons forever by writing them down then throwing them into the bonfire.

Message the Angels – Write your dreams and messages of hope on a Sky Lantern, light the candle and release them into the night sky.

Sky Laterns can be purchased for £5 each with all profits going to the Q:alliance charity.

7.00pm – Gather together for ‘Bonfire soup’ at Pink Punters

7.15pm – Address by John Goss / Live Band

7.30pm – Demon destruction

7.45pm – Lantern messages

7.55pm – Light your lanterns (individual, couples, families or groups)

8.00pm – Release your lanterns, the angels await. Fireworks

• The always interesting Mark Simpson visits the UK’s first gay night on an army base – http://bit.ly/2aPRgP

• Interesting article on the global struggle for queer freedom - http://bit.ly/oHUOw

• Ugandan MP proposes that gays should be executed - http://bit.ly/stKSU (via @pinknews)

• So… what do we want? Equality? Or Liberation? (or a bit of both?) http://bit.ly/3ZBFqu

• Peter Tatchell writes for the Independent commenting on Britain’s positive strides towards LGBT equality - http://bit.ly/2n9dK0

• Goal Watchers is a new weekly club in Milton Keynes specifically for those who want to instigate changes in their lives - http://bit.ly/36eb7p

• Fab news for the Day in Hand project - http://bit.ly/3VjFcM

• Black History Month ‘09 Profile: RuPaul, singer, actor, drag queen. Quote: “We all came into this world naked. The rest is drag” –  http://bit.ly/odCwr

• Keith Goddard, campaigner for Gays and lesbians of Zimbabwe has died - http://bit.ly/19Rgj0

• The victim of a suspected homophobic attack in Trafalgar Square died in hospital last night - http://bit.ly/3SKVb9

• Why are we not talking about this? http://bit.ly/okp0t

• FANTASTIC report from the EHRC about LGB experience in the UK. If you work or volunteer in any organisation that works with the public, make sure your bosses see this –  http://bit.ly/13L16x

• Speech: Trevor Phillips from yesterday’s launch of ‘Beyond Tolerance: making sexual orientation a public matter’ - http://bit.ly/6Zvee

• A new newsletter for LGBT Mental Health service users, service providers, community groups and interested individuals – http://bit.ly/OGjRH

• The Gay MK email group is abuzz with good feedback about Sunday’s Planet social night! Are you going next month? http://bit.ly/174RqM

• Another great speech from the National Equality March in America – http://bit.ly/TyHwc

• A history of black music – 29th Oct in Christ the Cornerstone CMK - http://bit.ly/CTFmp

• Fantastic speech from Lady Gaga at today’s National Equality March in the US – http://bit.ly/BigId

• Stephen Gately Obituary - http://bit.ly/17qc4h

• Black History Month ‘09 Profile: Zora Neale Hurston – http://bit.ly/MKHJc

• Think of something to let go of – a judgement, a negative feeling – breathe in then breathe out REALLY slowly as you let it go.

• Need to talk to someone about stress, self esteem, drugs, alcohol, body image, workplace issues, the scene, sex or a variety of other issues? Come to Q:alliance counselling –  http://bit.ly/2d9REc

• Black History Month ‘09 Profile: David McAlmont  - http://bit.ly/2kUhmX

• The new LGBT History Month Bulletin is out - http://bit.ly/2qZjev

Homophobic bullying creates an ugly climate of intimidation and can make it harder for young people to come out…. http://bit.ly/4ubZb

• Recession = homophobia… any thoughts? – http://bit.ly/18h9ix

• Relate help build stronger LGBT relationships –  http://bit.ly/4npFkd

• Terrible homophobic attack near Trafalgar Square http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/england/london/8288412.stm

• Advice on resolving Gay & Homophopic bullying  - http://twit.ac/pShm

• Black History Month ‘09 Profile: Bessie Smith, aka “The Empress of Blues” – http://bit.ly/1ubmul

• In the UK, African communities are the second most affected communities by HIV. Gay communities are the first.

• Have you signed the petition to include a question on sexual orientation on the 2011 census yet? –  http://bit.ly/2A6Yh2

• Gay football lover? The Gay Football Supporters Network’s mission is to promote the support and participation of gay men and women in football, and to act as a medium for LGBT football supporters to get together - http://bit.ly/ChSPW

• Chris Crocker on the Gay Divide (a great, great video that is well worth a watch)… http://bit.ly/xXE25

• Langston Hughes was the incredibly talented (and closeted) poet who wrote “The Negro Speaks of Rivers”, which… http://bit.ly/JYH0H

• October is Black History Month in the UK. To celebrate we will be linking to profiles of various famous and/or influential black LGBT people throughout the month. If you have suggestions of who we should feature – let us know!

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